To be & not to be 'Simple'

Iroquois: The Girl Who Was Not Satisfied With Simple Things

This story was about a girl named Dahjoh who was not satisfied with simple things. Her parents worked very hard in finding her a husband as she was very picky in choosing a suitable man for her. At last, she decided to marry a young handsome guy not from their village who was actually a serpent disguised in human form. When she knew that her husband was not of the same kind, she escaped with the help of Heno, the Thunderer. The girl returned to her village and finally married a man with a good heart. After that incident, Dahjoh learned to ‘be satisfied with simple things’.

The problem faced by Dahjoh was actually a universal problem happen around the globe. Man has always not easily satisfied with what they have. In fact, most of us only learned to appreciate what we have when we are threatened to lose them. Ironically, being not easily satisfied with simple things is never as wrong as it seems to be as men have always try their best to improve their living when they are not satisfy will their current stage of life. The process of pursuing after perfection has thereafter cultivating good spirits such as ambitious, perseverance, diligence and also building up good confidence level too. In my opinion, Dahjoh might be wrong when she foolishly made her decision solely based on the good outward appearance of her husband but she was not wrong for being picky person and in fact she was rightfully being a picky person. The outward appearance is as important as the inner beauty and it shall not be neglected when it comes to a crucial decision making in choosing a person who we would live together for the rest of our life. Marrying someone with good appearance is important not only to ensure that our descendent inherits the good looking genetics but also to make sure that we will not regret at the end of the day when we found out that the dissatisfaction with simple things has eventually becoming the flaws in the relationship. 

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Some parents fussed up when their kids get addicted on TV programs. Most of them scare that their children will neglect their studies if they spent too much time in front of the screen. To me, I think I would at the very first place observe what kind of TV shows my children have selected and of course never forget to monitor the time amount spent for TV.  When I was still a student, my English language teacher had always encouraged us to watch National Geographic. National geographic documents myriad of fun and interesting educational topics and it is suitable for people of all ages. Today, a lot of things had changed. The TV programs pattern has evolved so much to feed the demand of the public. Reality TV shows like American Idols, American got Talents, The Biggest Losers and Losing It with Jillian are some of the entertaining yet healthy TV shows that I would not stop my kids from watching it. Everybody likes reality story, most probably because they are closer to the public and thus give more impacts to the viewers. The Biggest Losers for example airs the life changing process of those people who are overweight which at the same time a very common health hazards long lived among our society. The show teaches the public to have great determination and consistency to fight for a healthier physical and at the same time pursue their dream and nevertheless improve their life. There was this episode of Losing it With Jillian that inspired me a lot. It was about a family where all the family members were obese and overweight. They faced not only health problem but also family conflict as well. Trying to restore the happy family relationship, the son finally decided to get his family on the show. At last, not only that they had built up healthy physical and life style but also had mended their family relationship. The broken family ties were rebuild as they participated in the program and won over the battle together as a family. They experienced the hardship together and worked hard to achieve their target for a healthier life. Their story inspired so many people who watched their story from the reality TV shows. Therefore, TV programs not just as a vessel to entertain and educate people but also good counselor and motivator too. As a teacher, I would suggest parents to get involve in their children’s activity such as watching the TV shows together so that they can share with one another what they have learnt from the shows. It would be a very great opportunity for the parents and their children to understand each other better which also at the same time bonding each other closer.

Myths: Ovid's Metamorphosis “Pyramus and Thisbe”

“Pyramus and Thisbe” was a tragedy love story during the Babylonian century. Young Pyramus and Thisbe lived next door to each other. They grew up together and were a deeply in love and longed to get married. Their relationship was forbid by their parents. Separated by a wall, they have no way to communicate to one another. At last, they found a crack on the wall and eventually used it to whisper their love for each other. Their love grew stronger until they couldn’t refrain again. Finally, they decided to meet at a tomb near a mulberries tree and run away. That night, Thisbe arrived first. She saw a lioness with a mouth bloody from a recent kill nearby the stream. She was horrified and quickly run away, leaving behind her veil. The lioness found her veil and played with it. Soon after the lioness left, Pyramus arrived. He tracked no sign of Thisbe but her blood contained veil. He assumed that a fierce beast had killed her. He blamed himself for coming late and so he stabbed himself to death, splashing blood on the white mulberry leaves. Pyramus' blood stained the white mulberry fruits, turning them dark. When Thisbe returned, she was so eager to share with Pyramus what had happened to her, but she found Pyramus’ dead body under the mulberry tree. Thisbe couldn’t bear the pain losing her lover. She took Pyramus’ sword and stabbed herself. In the end, the gods listened to Thisbe's lament, and forever changed the color of the mulberry fruits into the stained color to honor the forbidden love.

Myths, like legends and folktales, provides rich source of material for teaching lessons. Students can improve their critical thinking skills by determining the fundamental themes carried by the story. Teacher can conduct activities such as drama in class. This activity will help the students to understand the story as myths is often constructed chronologically. They will start to imagine the story and have the picture in their mind. The ability to imagine also allows the students to understand the story where they actually learn to infer the story from a contextual setting to a pictorial setting! Besides that, students will improve their language competency, vocabulary knowledge and also cultivating good listening and reading skills. Nevertheless, while working together in a group for the drama, students learn the importance of team work. They can also improve their communication skills while working as a group!

Folktales: 'The Son of the Turtle Spirit'

Folktales are popular everywhere. They have lived for ages despite any culture around the world, passed from generation to generation to create bondage with traditional values. In the past, folktales were told orally but today, they are transmitted in a printed version and also shown electronically on screen. Many of us today grow up listening to folktales sometime during our childhood. I remember the most the folktale cartoon entitled ‘The Seven Voyage of Sinbad the Sailor’ played on the TV when I was still young. The adventures story about the young sailor Sinbad amused me the most!

‘The son of the turtle spirit’ is an interesting tales of the Chinese culture. It is about the human- spirit relationship likewise to the folktale screened in cinema last year ‘the Sorcerer and the White Snake’. ‘The son of the turtle spirit’ is a story with supernatural element where it is about a turtle that lives in a pond; manifest himself a human at night to yield the girl that it is fond of which at the end, killed when its identity was revealed. As usual, folktales always have moralistic values in the story line. One of the moral values found in the story is to be a filial person. The son of the turtle spirit seeks permission from his mother when he decided to help the rich man to succeed his plan and he followed all the instructions given by his mother.

Folktales teaching in a classroom will be of so much fun. Teacher can ask the student to share with their classmates the folktales that they have heard before. Besides that, teacher can discuss about the moral values found in the story or to ask about the students’ reflections on the story. Such a happening and interactive learning process will strengthen the students’ ability to do impromptu speech and at the same time cultivating the spirit of sharing among the students. Apart from listening to the sharing by the students, the teacher can also expose the students to a wider variety of folktales around the world by giving some examples of folktales such as ‘Tokoyo and the Sea Monster’ (Japanese folktale) and ‘How water lilies began’ (England folktale) or ‘The Rain God’s Daughter’ (African folktale).

You are what you think you are – Peale

Psychologists have confirmed that men tend to act according to the most self-image mode. Which mean you will act the way you think you would be after acknowledging the type of a person you are. If you think you are a kind person you will always be kind and do things in the most the easy-going way. Similarly, if you think that you are honest, you will be treating people fair and square, and there will always a sense of justice in all of your doings. And if you think that you are not to be trifled, then when people mess up with you, you will definitely not to let them go easily. To conclude, what kind of a person you think you are turn to mold the person you appear to be.

This quote by Norman Vincent Peale was a simple but yet very strong quote. It reminds me to always be careful with my own thoughts and the self-image I have in my mind and learn to discover who I am not from other peoples’ view side but from the inner side of myself. The type of person we are will affect the decision we make and the decision we make shapes us the person we are today. Sometimes, a seemingly simple choice, like selecting a job, a dress or a friend are actually crucial decision used to define who you are. Therefore, the journey to understand ourselves is indeed not for a short period of time, it’s a lifelong process.

Mariah by Che Husna Azhari

Mariah

Mariah was a widowed nasi seller in Molo, a small village in Kelantan, who at the same time so much admired by the village men. She was regarded as a threat or a troublemaker by the society especially the women in the village because their husbands neglect their home cooking and pursue to Mariah’s Kedai Merpati for her nasi berlauk. The village Imam who has been married fifteen years with Cik Yam discovered that Mariah looks so much alike to his past love, the Sheikh’s daughter during his first visit to Mariah’s stall. He started to breakfast more frequently there until when he finally decided to take Mariah as his second wife. His decision was agreed by Cik Yam out of her love towards the Imam. The marriage received blessings from the community as the issue with the troublemaker may be put to an end when the most righteous Imam marry Mariah and at the same time resolved the childless problem in the Imam and Cik Yam’s marriage.

          The writer, Che Husna Azhari highlighted several issues in this story and eventually uncovered some problems women encounter in the Malay society. First and foremost, Che Husna Azhari storied about the perception to see widowed women or any women without husband as threats or spinsters in the Malay society from the plot of the story when the village ladies visited the Imam’s house and talk bad about Mariah to Cik Yam. They reckoned that Mariah is the troublemaker in their village and accuse that she put ‘something’ in her nasi to attract customers. In old times, widowed or unmarried women had often classified as the weak group and need protection from men and therefore men offered themselves and provided protection through marriage (most of the time a polygamy marriage). In my opinion, widowed woman shall not be regarded as a threat nor should she be seen as a spinster or a troublemaker. Such thinking and serious accusation should be eliminated from the mindset of every person. Besides, I personally disagree with the thought that women are weak and need protection from men. Today’s women are independent. Mariah is a very good example of an independent woman. She makes her own living by selling Nasi and depends on nobody but herself. She behaved just as normal as the others and was morally well kept too. Therefore, she definitely is not to be blamed as the culprit when husbands neglect their wives cooking at home nor she is to be seen as a weak person since she survived for years without a husband.

                The writer also highlighted the polygamy issue in this story. Although polygamy is not an illegal practice and in fact it is religiously permitted in certain religion but I still don’t think that it is a right relationship one should have. Marriage should be purely between two people. Not three or four! The couple should uphold the lifelong promises, give commitment to both parties, to accept the good and bad parts of their spouse and to tolerate and experience good and bad times together. I feel disappointed with the Imam in this story. He blamed Cik Yam as the culprit for the heirless issue in their marriage but never discuss this matter with his wife or to resolve their problem such as seeking medical advice and treatment. In fact, fertility problem not only happen to woman but to man as well. Just how awful he is by accusing Cik Yam without evidence and medical proof! If the problem comes from the Imam, he will never have his own blood even after he marries Mariah. Polygamy could not promise a happily ever after ending in a family and in fact it gives rise to family problem as polygamy families are often dramatic. Quarrels between wife and mistresses, competition between the children, fights for attentions and so on are among the problems encountered in a polygamous family. The Imam promises Cik Yam that his love for her will be continuous even after his marriage with Mariah but things are subjected to changes. No one knows how long the promise will last and jealously is always as deadly as poison. Can Mariah and Cik Yam live happily under one roof, sharing the love of their husband?

Fables : The Fox and the Crow

The Fox and the Crow

Aesop’s Fables “The Fox and the Crow” is an interesting story with a particular moral and teach a lesson to children and kids.  It provides great entertainment as reading story is for fun and enjoyment. Applying fables in our language classroom can make a lesson interesting, the kids having fun because the length for the stories are shorts can attract children’s attention.

Besides that, the language use also simple and straightforward, easy to understand. The theme and characters appeal in the stories are humorous and entertaining for kids of all ages.  The characters of fables usually animals who act and talk like human which retaining animal traits.

We can apply this story in our teaching when teach about the topic of animals. From the story, we are introducing two different animals – fox and crow.  Can use picture or illustration, big book to get the kids to talk or describe about the features of fox and crow. Also can get the kids role play the story with their own words.

Apply moral value in the end of the lesson and relate this story to daily situation. “Do not trust flatterers”.  Example: Do not open the door for a stranger when staying alone at home.  As to conclude, “as cunning as a fox,” an English idioms that can be use to explain a situation relate to daily living. A stranger just like the fox will think for tricks to achieve their target. So, do not trust or talk to a stranger.